An Epiphany... Sort of...

I recently had an "aha" moment.

Not really "aha" but, just a good realization.

I thought being in a relationship that involves two people going to separate colleges three hours away would be super hard to deal with cause let's face it, the other person cannot be there every weekend, and you can't go out to see them every weekend.

I thought that every 2-3 weeks was gonna be the hardest thing ever...

And for a while it was because most of my relationship has been spent apart from this person, not to mention it's my first relationship so of course I want to be with him a lot (not in a clingy way, but you know, just to see him more often).

But last night I thought, "why is this so hard? I mean... really?"

Mostly because I smacked myself in the face (not in a literal sense lol) with the realization that this should be a piece of cake for me.

After all, I spent an ENTIRE YEAR away from my family and friends up north.

Surely if I could survive 52 weeks of being apart, I could easily deal with 2 to 3 weeks.

Not that it makes it easy or doesn't make me sad, but I can deal with it.

:)

-fin-